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 Replies: 16 — Last Post June 25, 2009 4:08pm by airheadbby
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( RaNdOm 191094 )
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Ok, this may be long, but I have come here as a last resort. Ok basically, I have a bf lets call him bob, ok I have been going out with bob for nearly 9 months, and I have known him for years he is amazing. My friend lets call her sally, we have been friends for ages, but for that last year havent really talked much, drifted apart with age, anyway she went out with this guy lets call him joe. She broke up with him ages ago. Anyway I started to email joe, and then to txt, we talked for ages, he has a real bad background, and I was just you know giving him advice and stuff to be nice and help out, Joe is a really cool person, but now he has started to get fellings for me, I told him I am happy with bob, but I had hurting his felling because he has had some much crap happen to him in the past, I dont know what to do, do I stop texting Joe? Do I keep giving him advice know he fells so strongly about me? HELP!
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Tits McGee
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Yes. Stop texting him. He'll get over it, and if you keep trying to be his friend and give him advice, he'll keep liking you and thinking that he has a chance.
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Keep giving him advice because its rare to find someone you can relate to like that, but make it clear to him that you only want to be friends. Make sure he doesnt think theres anything else.
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( RaNdOm 191094 )
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What If I think I might like Joe, But I would never hurt Bob like that
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its okay to give him advice, but maybe you should tell him:
Look, i think its nice that youre into me and all, but i have a boyfriend and im happy with him. i dont mind hepling you out when you need it, and i dont think we shouldnt be friends, but im not looking for a realtionship right now.
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Stick with this Bob guy, i'm sure you're better off with him. Tell Joe you don't want to take all this the wrong way so you'd like to stop talking for a while. If he asks why, say that you love bob, and you don't want to destroy something good you have between yourself and bob.
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2:11 am on June 25, 2009 | Joined: Feb. 2009 | Days Active: 188
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Quote: from RaNdOm 191094 at 10:12 am on June 25, 2009
 Quote: from EmerleeX at 2:10 am on June 25, 2009
Tell him that you REALLY like Bob, and don't want to jeopardise that. You could carry on giving him advice as a FRIEND. If he still keeps saying that he likes you. Just tell him that you don't want to ruin your relationship with Bob, so you'll have to end your friendship with Joe. Obviously in your words and in a nicer way probably :P 
That will work I guess, but I would fell so horrible ending a friendship with Joe because he is soooo depressed as it is, and If he ever did anything to himself because I wasn't his friend anymore, I don't know I wouldnt be able to live with myself
Well for one, it's not your fault he's depressed. Remember that. You just don't want to ruin your relationship as it is. If you don't want to tell him in the third stage. Just gradualy stop emailing/texting him.
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( RaNdOm 191094 )
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Oh yeah and I told him before that I was happy with Bob, and he started getting angry, that he always f**ked thing up and went for the wrong girls, Im just a piece of s**t. He is depressed Im worried about hurting him more, Ive got to far in, should I back out now or keep going?
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