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I am a loner. Hah yes i know, i'm quite harsh about myself =) I have many friends, but not many that i'm particularly "close" with or ones that would want me around them during lunchtime at school & stuff so, i spend my lunch time's in the school library, doing homework. Yes, it's because i don't have those "types" of friends that would actually want to hang out with me. So, a lot of my friends come in and out of the library and stuff and they come and talk to me and whatnot, sometimes even sit down, BUT they do make fun of me often by saying stuff like, "you're such a loner, you spend your lunches in the library because you have no friends" now, i know that they're joking, but .. it's the truth. The main reason i'm ALWAYS in the library is because i don't have those "types" of close friends. It's really putting a drag on my social life {not like i really
have one, anways) but yeah, it sucks, harsh.
Just thought that i'd vent & let everything out. So, thanks to you guys for listening to my long and boring rant; greatly appreciated =)
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Breakboy
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Awww, you sound a lot like the girl I like.
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9:34 pm on Mar. 7, 2008 | Joined: Aug. 2007 | Days Active: 483
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dabidoo
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Awww.. I'm a loner too.
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BrownieBoo
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There were times and are times when I don't want to be alone at lunch or even didn't want to be bothered by people. Sometimes, they'd just annoy me with their loudness and annoying ways. I know how you feel, but your friends-even if they are joking don't k=need to say stuff like that to you. They could at least say, "Let's get you to hang out more often." or socialize more don't be afraid. You understand? I get nervous sometimes trying to start a convo. with someone because I'm afraid they'll think I'm boring or crazy, but what I realized was you have to appear open and willing to make friends. It takes time and it takes time to gain the courage. PM me if you have any other q's. Hope this helps.
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Megzz
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hey, i know it is hard to believe it when people say that i know how you feel, but i really know how you feel. that was me like 2 years ago... all you got to do is just think on the positive side and be bold and think highly of yourself. that really shows a difference. then just ask if you can sit with one of your "friends" and get close to their friends. then eventually you can feel more comfortable at lunch.
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carracer
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i feel your pain. sometimes there is an advantage though because it allows you to pursue your own goals instead of wasting your time. for example i spend alot of my time doing music stuff during free time in school because i just dont want to have dumb conversation. sometimes the talking is not all its worked up to be.
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( fjnprincezz )
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There were times and are times when I don't want to be alone at lunch or even didn't want to be bothered by people. Sometimes, they'd just annoy me with their loudness and annoying ways. I know how you feel, but your friends-even if they are joking don't k=need to say stuff like that to you. They could at least say, "Let's get you to hang out more often." or socialize more don't be afraid. You understand? I get nervous sometimes trying to start a convo. with someone because I'm afraid they'll think I'm boring or crazy, but what I realized was you have to appear open and willing to make friends. It takes time and it takes time to gain the courage. PM me if you have any other q's. Hope this helps. ^^
Wow, you totally sound like me =O Anyways, thanks for the great advice and all, i'll PM you if i need to talk more; you're awesome & yes, it helps A LOT! =D hey, i know it is hard to believe it when people say that i know how you feel, but i really know how you feel. that was me like 2 years ago... all you got to do is just think on the positive side and be bold and think highly of yourself. that really shows a difference. then just ask if you can sit with one of your "friends" and get close to their friends. then eventually you can feel more comfortable at lunch. ^^
Thanks for the advice; it's awesome knowing that other people out there know exactly what i'm going through =)
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katjassidekick
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Same here. I feel as though I have no one I can feel completely close with.
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Must be a devil between us,
or whores in my head
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sk8ordie
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yea i was kind of the same way i got depressed and shit cuz my parents said they were worried about me cuz i was a loner.
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