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PBScott
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Stay away from him, and get yourself in a position to be a mother. Having kids young is a blessing in disguise, it means that they move out when your still young enough to really enjoy life.
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12:05 am on Feb. 5, 2012 | Joined: Feb. 2009 | Days Active: 228 Join to learn more about PBScott British Columbia, Canada | Straight Male | Posts: 867 | Points: 3,173
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L C
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Personally, I'd abort in your situation, but what do YOU want? How do YOU plan on dealing with this situation? And by adult do you mean 21+ with a job or a fresh faced Senior in high school?
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12:05 am on Feb. 5, 2012 | Joined: Feb. 2006 | Days Active: 824 Join to learn more about L C Colorado, United States | Straight Female | Posts: 27,616 | Points: 45,782
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( southernrosebell1 )
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Well I know single moms who do it fine without the dad. I'm just not sure if that's what I'm willing to do plus I'm scared of him and all...
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( southernrosebell1 )
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legally I'm an adult. Which by law I'm an adult that's all I mean... And there are 26 year olds without jobs living with their parents. I'm an adult with a job.
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( southernrosebell1 )
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I don't know most of the time I thought if I had a job and was of age I'd keep it. I have a job but I wanted to go to school. But I can't say I wouldn't deny the chance to have this baby because I know I could do it like I think with family support it will be hard but I can do it. I guess... Just as long he's not a problem....
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he's already an ex, so stop all contact with him and try to stay as far away as possible. you don't have to tell him about it if you dont feel safe and think that he might attack you. he can't attack you AT school, because there are people there watching right? try not to be alone with him at all, ever. if he attacks you, you can go to the authorities and you can get a restraining order, which means he can't come near you if it's approved. unfortunately as long as he doesn't attack you, you've just got to be careful and look out for yourself. there's nothing to force him away. with the sexual abuse charges... they may let you go even if you're found "guilty" because as you said, it's only 2 yrs difference. it's still illegal, but they might just not punish you for it. (fingers crossed!) can your parents help with the baby? what do you mean that you'd get an abortion if you get charged? it's not the end of the world if you do get charged, and the baby may be alright anyway. but whatever choice you make, you'll need to consider everything still.
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( southernrosebell1 )
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I mean if it goes anywhere extreme. I could depend on my parents I think as long as it's what I want to do and all....
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( southernrosebell1 )
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I just when people at school find out I'm pregnant he may try to do something that's what I'm scared more about....
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( southernrosebell1 )
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with my parents I feel like if I told them I didn't know what I wanted to do that I'd end up aborting I don't want them to influence me.... I know they have their opinions but if I'm staunch in what I want to do I won't be swayed.
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( southernrosebell1 )
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I want to do the right thing and I don't have anything against abortion and I can see that I would easily emotionally feel attached asI would now.... It's just how I think really I mean parenting always is thought over once one is pregnant.
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